My Journal: The Power of Being - Understanding Soul Individualization Beyond Doing
- LizPranaLife
- Mar 10
- 6 min read
In a world that often prioritizes achievement, success, and external validation, the concept of individualization is frequently misunderstood. We are taught from a young age to focus on doing—setting goals, checking off tasks, and making measurable progress. However, there is a deeper, more profound aspect of individualization that goes beyond external actions. It is found not in what we do, however, in how we are.
Individualization, in its truest sense, is not about striving to be someone different or chasing after a set of accomplishments. It is about embracing our authentic self and aligning with the essence of who we are. The ultimate purpose of the soul is not to accumulate achievements or fulfill external expectations, however, to discover and express our truest nature. This process of individualization is a journey of becoming, rather than doing.
The State of Being
When we focus solely on doing, we often get caught up in external pressures and the need to prove ourselves. However, what if the key to true fulfillment lies in shifting our focus inward, toward simply being? In the state of being, we are present, grounded, and connected to our most authentic self. There is no need to perform or prove anything. Instead, we allow ourselves to exist without judgment or comparison.
This state of being is not passive, however, deeply powerful. It is from this space that true transformation happens. When we are in touch with our inner truth, our actions naturally flow from a place of clarity and authenticity. We no longer act out of fear, ego, or external expectations. Instead, we are guided by a deep sense of purpose and inner peace.
Being vs. Surrendering: Finding the Balance
In exploring the difference between being and surrendering, it is important to recognize that while both can lead us toward alignment, they are distinct concepts. Being is about fully embracing the present moment and embodying who we are in its most authentic form. It is an active state of self-awareness, where we are deeply connected to our inner truth, and from this place, we act consciously and deliberately.
However, surrendering involves letting go of the need to control or manipulate outcomes. It is the practice of releasing attachment to specific results and trusting the flow of life. Surrender is about yielding to what is, accepting the unknown, and allowing things to unfold as they are meant to. While surrendering may seem passive, it actually requires great courage and trust. It is about releasing the ego’s hold on outcomes and embracing the belief that the universe will guide us toward what is best for our soul’s growth.
Though distinct, being and surrendering are deeply intertwined. When we are in a state of being, we are better equipped to surrender, because we are grounded in the truth of who we are. We are no longer driven by fear or the need to control; instead, we are open to the flow of life. The more we practice being, the more we naturally allow ourselves to surrender to what life offers, knowing that we are fully aligned with our essence, and all will unfold as it should.
Will Power vs. Flow
Another critical element of individualization is the relationship between willpower and the flow of life. Willpower is often celebrated in modern culture as the driving force behind success. It is the inner strength that pushes us to act, even when things are difficult or we face resistance. Willpower can help us break through barriers, make decisions, and stay focused on our goals.
However, relying solely on willpower can lead to burnout and frustration. When we exert too much force, we risk resisting the natural flow of life.
In contrast, the concept of flow is more aligned with the state of being and surrender. Flow is a state of effortless ease, where our actions are not driven by force, however, by alignment with our inner truth. It is when we are so attuned to the present moment that we move seamlessly with the rhythm of life. Instead of pushing against resistance, we become part of the natural current, allowing our actions to emerge organically from the space of being.
The balance between willpower and flow is crucial. There are times when willpower is necessary—when we must take deliberate action, set boundaries, or push through challenges. However, when we lean too heavily on willpower, we risk overexerting ourselves and losing touch with our deeper self. In contrast, when we embrace the flow of life and act from a place of being, our efforts feel more aligned, and the outcomes are often more fulfilling.
Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation: The Path to True Individualization
A crucial aspect of individualization lies in the motivations that drive our actions—whether they are intrinsic or extrinsic. Intrinsic motivation refers to doing something for the inherent satisfaction it brings, driven by inner desires, passions, and personal growth. On the other hand, extrinsic motivation is driven by external rewards or pressures—such as recognition, money, or approval from others.
For true individualization to unfold, we must cultivate intrinsic motivations. When we act from an intrinsic place, we align our actions with our authentic self. We are no longer driven by the need to prove something or gain external validation. Instead, our actions are fueled by passion, curiosity, and a deep desire to express who we truly are. This alignment with our true essence allows for greater fulfillment and a more profound sense of purpose.
However, this does not mean that extrinsic motivations should be ignored entirely. There are times when external rewards are necessary or desirable. The key is to ensure that our intrinsic motivations take precedence, guiding our actions and decisions. When we balance the two—acting from our authentic self while navigating the external world—we can move toward individualization in a way that is sustainable and meaningful.
When we practice aligning our actions with our intrinsic motivations, we begin to experience a more harmonious flow of life. Our actions feel more purposeful, and our decisions are more in tune with our soul’s desires. This leads us to a place where the process of individualization unfolds naturally, with clarity and ease.
The Soul’s Purpose
At the heart of individualization is the understanding that the soul’s ultimate purpose is not about accomplishing external goals, however, about being—being fully present and connected to the essence of who we are. It is through this alignment that we experience true fulfillment and joy. When we step into the fullness of our being, we are no longer driven by the need to conform or meet external standards. We are free to express ourselves fully, without fear or hesitation.
True individualization is not a destination; it is an ongoing process of becoming more of who we truly are. It is about shedding the layers of conditioning, expectation, and external judgment, and stepping into the purest form of ourselves. When we do this, we begin to see the world and ourselves with fresh eyes, and we move through life with a sense of ease and flow.
In the end, individualization is not about what we accomplish or how much we do. It is about how we live from the deepest, most authentic part of ourselves. When we embrace the power of being, we unlock a purity in our actions that is aligned with our soul’s true purpose. This shift from doing to being, and from willpower to flow, is the key to living a life of fulfillment, joy, and alignment. It is a reminder that our greatest achievements do not come from what we do, however, from who we are when we simply allow ourselves to be. By finding the balance between being and surrendering, willpower and flow, and by practicing intrinsic motivations while navigating the external world, we unlock the path to a truly authentic and purposeful life.
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