Today, I have been reflecting on my role in the world, especially as it relates to the work I do and the way I approach challenges. There is this deep impulse in me to fix things—whether it is for people around me or the world in general. It is almost automatic. When someone has a problem, my mind instantly starts running through solutions. It is just how I am wired.
However, I am starting to see that this drive isn’t always as simple as it seems. There are times when I take on too much, especially when others begin to expect me to always have the answers. It is like I carry this unspoken responsibility to solve problems, to make things better. Over time, I have become the person people turn to because they know I am resourceful and can find a way through when things feel stuck. They rely on me because I have built a reputation for being able to make things happen.
While I am good at it, it can get overwhelming. The more I fix, the more they expect from me. It is like the weight of everyone’s expectations starts piling up, and I begin to feel the pressure—the fear of letting them down or failing to solve something that feels urgent. I have realized that this constant need to always have the answers can stretch me too thin. I have been so focused on fixing everything for everyone that I have lost sight of balance.
The hardest part has been letting go of the belief that I always have to be the one to fix things. At first, it felt fulfilling to be the go-to person for advice, solutions, or a way forward. I have built this internal toolkit full of strategies and ideas, and when I offer them, it feels meaningful. But the truth is, not everything is mine to fix, and some problems aren’t even mine to solve. I am learning that sometimes the best thing I can do isn’t give a solution but help others discover their own.
Over time, I have shifted from being the one who fixes everything to someone who helps others tap into their own wisdom. Instead of offering solutions, I have learned to guide people to find their own answers. This has been incredibly empowering, both for them and for me. As I have taken a step back and created space for others to discover their own solutions, I have seen them grow in confidence and ability. I am no longer the one always carrying the weight—by empowering others, I am helping them realize their own strength. It is a shift I am deeply proud of, one that has allowed me to grow as a leader and a guide.
I have been thinking a lot about the role of practicality in all this. As I reflect on the gene key line 5 - The Fixer, I realize that there is a moment where my ability to fix things becomes a matter of practicality. I now see that I have a gift for determining whether something is really worth investing my time and energy into. If I believe something can truly make a difference in the world, I claim ownership of it and put everything I have into making it work. This is where my resourcefulness shines—I am able to take something, organize it, and turn it into something powerful and impactful. But if it is not going to be truly useful, I can step away without hesitation. It is a matter of knowing where to focus my efforts, ensuring that what I offer is valuable, both to others and to the world at large.
This has been a crucial shift for me. I realize now that my gift isn’t just about fixing—it is about creating efficiency and improving things in a way that makes a real impact. When I organize my efforts well and focus on what truly matters, I have the ability to lead and guide others in powerful ways. The more I refine this skill, the more I can contribute to a world that is more efficient, effective, and empowered.
I have been thinking a lot about the idea of invincibility. At first, I thought it meant being strong and unshakeable, someone who could handle everything without faltering. But now I see that true invincibility is about surrendering the need to control every outcome. It is about peace in the chaos and realizing that I don’t have to carry the world on my shoulders. I can’t fix everything, and that’s okay. My worth isn’t tied to being the one with all the solutions.
So today, I am reminding myself: I am enough, even when I don’t fix everything. Maybe that is the real fix—learning to let go, trusting that not everything needs to be solved, and guiding others to find their own inner wisdom in the process.
That is the shift I am working on—one step at a time.
In this process, I am also learning to choose who is worth my time. This isn’t about being selective in a judgmental way, but about discerning where my energy will truly make a difference. Not everyone is ready for guidance, and not every challenge is mine to take on. The people I am choosing to invest my time in are those who respect and value their own growth and transformation. They recognize their own responsibility in their own transformation quest. When I guide them, they don’t expect me to fix everything for them—they are actively participating in their own process, recognizing that their growth comes from within. This has allowed me to release the pressure of always needing to have the answers, as I now see my role as more of a facilitator of their own wisdom.
Choosing those who are ready and willing to take responsibility for their own path frees me from the burden of doing it all for them. By investing my energy in these people, I know I am contributing to something real and sustainable, where they are empowered to take ownership of their own growth. This shift has been incredibly liberating, both for them and for me, and it has deepened my sense of purpose.
In doing this, I am learning that my worth is not tied to being everyone’s problem-solver. I am enough without fixing everything, and in choosing where to focus my time, I am creating deeper impact and allowing myself the peace and balance I need to thrive.
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